Transformations: 4 Questions, 4 Qualities 4 L.O.V.E.

Sometimes in our relationships with our wives, girlfriends, fiancée etc we meet situations that challenge the way we think , the way we act and our whole process of interacting with them. Whether we are in the new stages of being a  couple or are old pros we need to constantly check how we treat each other. Men and women can ask themselves the following questions when making a decision in their relationships:

Is this the LOVING thing to do?
Is this the WISE thing to do?
Is this action JUST or one of integrity?
Is this decision going to POWERFULLY affect my relationship in a positive way?

Asking ourselves these questions can make us at the very least pause and reflect on what we do and how we act. We all have at one time had
a bad relationship and we all know that one or two bad apples really don’t spoil the bunch. It’s all about perspective. There are good girls and bad boys, good guys and bad girls. What matters is how we react to them. Let’s hope we don’t let those few who may have hurt us keep us from giving and getting one of the most basic human needs…LOVE.

Leave the past behind,

Open yourself to receive it.

Value the person you are with,

Everyday seek to improve yourself.

4 Questions, 4 Qualities 4 L.O.V.E.

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One Comment on “Transformations: 4 Questions, 4 Qualities 4 L.O.V.E.”

  1. jenndiva Says:

    This is a great post, and my favorite part is the last line. I agree with you that we can get jaded by our past and let those memories block us from allowing something new come into our lives. We can’t be afraid of change or love, we need to find a way to embrace it. Love doesn’t come around all the time just like any opportunity. We have to grab it when we have the chance, then we have to cherish and nurture it. Otherwise it’s an opportunity that we just missed.


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